Wednesday, 30 May 2018

Dom again

It has been a very long time since I have made use of my flogger, rope, cuffs etc. I'd even considered selling it all (and haven't totally given up on this idea), but there's a slim prospect of kink in my future. 

As much as I'm tempted to rush back into it, I still think it sensible to get to know someone before putting them in bondage, more for their comfort and security than mine. But...what if I've forgotten how to Dom? Will I remember how to do that intricate tie?

There is, of course, only one way to find out. I'll be honest with any partner and explain that it's been a while and patience may initially be necessary. Whilst I may not pass the How To Be A Dom practical test if I had to take it tomorrow, I would remember the important stuff about care, consent, communication etc and nail the theory. 

Hopefully I'll get to rediscover the practical side sooner rather than later...

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