Wednesday, 9 January 2019

So very lucky - before & after

Before we begin I always think how very lucky I am. Before we begin I think about what adventures we will experience within these four walls. She is laid out before me entirely unclothed. How do I deserve such beauty?

A creation as delectable as this requires time for thorough appreciation, first with the eyes, then with the hands and then, finally, with the mouth.

What an honour it is to be caressing this thigh. How unbelievably fantasy-fulfilling it is to be gently biting that perfect neck. Such luxury, being able to dedicate time to simply look and marvel, stroke and kiss.

With a landscape as varied as this it is worth lingering over the fine details. Don't rush to nipples and cunt.

Run your hands from hip to waist and waist to breast, taking joy at this rollercoaster of ups and downs. Draw a finger down the shallow valley along the spine, which disappears into the soft flesh swell of buttocks.

Inevitably the languid river of worship plummets into the frenzied waterfall of sex. Familiar with every inch of this yielding lover, penetration becomes just one of the players in this act of touches, caresses and kisses.

How is it possible that this exquisite creature is giving herself to me? Afterwards I once again reflect on how very lucky I am. Afterwards the memories of her will linger for an indulgently long time.

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Tuesday, 8 January 2019

A taste of LDR

I've had a taste of what a truly long-distance relationship can be like whilst on this 6-month journey. My sub and I have remained in frequent contact. The subjects of our WhatsApp chats seem to be split as follows:

- 70% how has your day been/what have you been up to
- 5% plans for when we next meet
- 20% flirting (which 95% of the time results from talking about something innocent)
- 5% me offering advice or her being a brat and earning punishments

Although some think that travelling the world should be an opportunity to leave life behind for a while, I very much disagree when it comes to relationships. A bond was formed when we met and would grow too weak if contact were to be infrequent. Now we won't meet again as strangers, even if my absence from London will be longer than expected.I've had a taste of what a truly long-distance relationship can be like whilst on this 6-month journey. My sub and I have remained in frequent contact. The subjects of our WhatsApp chats seem to be split as follows:

- 70% how has your day been/what have you been up to
- 5% plans for when we next meet
- 20% flirting (which 95% of the time results from talking about something innocent)
- 5% me offering advice or her being a brat and earning punishments

Although some think that travelling the world should be an opportunity to leave life behind for a while, I very much disagree when it comes to relationships. A bond was formed when we met and would grow too weak if contact were to be infrequent. Now we won't meet again as strangers, even if my absence from London will now be longer than expected.

I really can't wait to see her again!

Thursday, 3 January 2019

Paying extra

Why do single men pay more to get into adult clubs (sex clubs, swinging clubs, BDSM clubs etc)? It's hard to argue against the conjecture that it's to do with supply and demand; I'm sure that many more men would want to attend such clubs.

Some say that by making single men pay considerably more you're restricting their numbers, and that this is a good thing because men are more likely to disrespect boundaries. On the whole, I agree with the premise that you're more likely to come across a badly behaved man than a badly behaved woman and that having more women in a club is likely to modify that behaviour.

So why not restrict numbers? By making men pay are you not increasing the chances of making more men feel entitled to sex? Are you not making men feel relatively cheap and worthless? It really hurts and is hugely offensive to be treated like this (but tough shit, right? Men are to blame for this after all).

Thank you to those clubs and events who find a way of admitting men that is safe, enjoyable and fair for all. I'm sure it isn't easy but, in my experience, it is possible.