Monday, 26 February 2018

Eroticon 2018 Meet & Greet

This year I shall once again be attending Eroticon in an attempt to improve this blog and my writing overall. If you're coming along then below is my meet and greet (you can find others here).

NAME (and Twitter if you have one)
Starcross (@LoveLustLondon)

What are you most looking forward to about Eroticon 2018?
The experience of seeing blog and Twitter names morph into real-life human beings, reacquainting with lovely folk and filling my brain with ways in which to take my writing to the next level. Anna Sky's Self-Editing Tips & Tricks will be particularly useful for the latter!

We are creating a play list of songs for the Friday Night Meet and Greet. Nominate one song
that you would like us to add to the play list and tell us why you picked that song
A lot of my favourite songs are somewhat depressing. So as not to bum everyone out I'll go for Do You Realize? by the Flaming Lips, because it's a joyous tune (if you ignore the lyrics), from a colourful, imaginative and open-minded band and therefore appropriate for this audience.

What’s the first career you dreamed of having as a kid?
RAF helicopter pilot. Colour blindness soon ended that dream. Then I wanted to join the army, but they wouldn't let anyone in with even mild asthma and so yet another dream died. Where did I put that depressing playlist...?

Weirdest place you’ve ever gotten up to mischief (define ‘mischief’ however you like…)
More abnormal than weird; the Trans-Mongolian Express, quite probably whilst travelling through Siberia (it was a long time ago and my memory is vodka hazy). Top tip: train sex is easy when you have a cabin with walls close enough on which to brace feet.

Tell us two truths and a lie about yourself
I've travelled to over 75 countries.
I'm in a mon/non-mon marriage and have relationships in which I submit to others.
I love white water rafting.

Complete the sentence: I want... incredible wife G to live out her days (long may they be) in happiness.

Thursday, 15 February 2018

First date is next Tuesday

"Are you comfortable with me saying 'good girl'?"

Trying to meet others who want an open relationship and who are into D/s isn't easy at all. Firstly; because such people are a rarity, secondly; because until you get to know them you don't fully know their intentions and, thirdly; they need to know that you're a safe, honourable person.

The brief conversation at the top of this post came about after a couple of months of getting to know one another a little better online. This isn't something I'd ask to someone I've just met. I had talked about my relationship, she had made it increasingly obvious that she was interested in kink.

It's always a happy moment when you realise that the person you've been getting to know is really into you, would like to meet you with a view to eventually submitting. First date is next Tuesday.

Sunday, 11 February 2018

Melbourne CFNM

Several years ago and a little bit more I was not the dominant sex blogger you see (in writing) before you today. I was considerably more submissive and exploring CFNM*. I was also in Melbourne. In these ancient times there was Yahoo Groups, where you could find like-minded people for whatever you were into; travel, knitting, your favourite band etc.

I came across one for CFNM aficionados based in Melbourne. The group organiser suggested we meet. I was younger and less cautious in those days. Without getting to know her better I jumped in her car and we headed to the nearest nudist beach.

Beneath the warm Australian sun we started stripping. She stopped at her swimsuit I, as instructed, kept going. Watching the waves swish onto the sand we chatted about what we both enjoy about this particular kink. We had differing opinions but discovered that we both liked the simplicity of it, plus the empowerment of the female gaze.

She asked me to go into the water then took some photos (again; I was young and naive) then we got dressed and arranged to meet again. A few weeks later I found myself in her house, stripping to Rod Stewart's Do Ya Think I'm Sexy. Yes, ridiculous, but fun despite the music. However, this was her request and so I obliged.

I obliged her requests to pose naked as she took more photos (yep) then she lay a towel on the floor and asked me to lie on it, legs up. We'd discussed anal play and she was keen to help me find that sweet spot. She lubed, she toyed, she failed. Her attentions focused elsewhere until she was done with me.

As I cleaned up we talked about meeting again. She gave me a memory card of the photos she'd taken and kept a few for herself. We never met again and, apart from with G, I've never again experienced CFNM. I do wonder what she did with those photos though...

*Clothed Female Naked Male

Sunday, 4 February 2018


Have you ever wondered what it would be like to meet yourself? If there were two of you, what would you do? Would you both perform different duties in bed, or would you simply be extra?

See more Es in this weeks Sinful Sunday:
Sinful Sunday